Transformational Coaching for children and teens: helping them to become who they are meant to be

I’m Tom Grimwood — identity coach for children and teens.
I help young people build confidence, emotional resilience, and a strong sense of who they are.
Through transformational coaching, we uncover what’s holding them back, explore who they want to become, and give them the tools to lead themselves with purpose.

If you're a parent looking to help your child grow in confidence, emotional strength, and self-leadership, you're in the right place.

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Discover coaching designed to help your child build confidence, emotional strength and a lasting sense of who they are.

  • A guided journey to explore identity, values and purpose

  • Tools for emotional regulation, self-leadership and decision-making

  • Coaching that transforms mindset, builds reslience and supports long-term growth

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Services

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Personalised Coaching to build identity, confidence and Resilience

Tailoured sessions to help your child uncover who they are, work through emotional challenges and grow into a confident, self-led individual.

1:1 Coaching

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Workshops and talks to empower students and support parents

Engaging assemblies, group workshops and staff or parent sessions - all designed to support wellbeing, confidence and self-leadership in young people.

Schools

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Group coaching

Online coaching for groups of up to six children

Small group sessions that combine peer connection with powerful coaching tools - perfect for growing confidence, emotional intelligence and shared progress.

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IDENTITY COACH

Hi, I’m Tom Grimwood — identity coach for children and teens.
I help young people build confidence, emotional resilience, and a strong sense of who they are.
After years as a teacher, I saw the gap in how we support children's personal growth — so I left the classroom to coach full-time. Now, I guide young people through a transformational journey of self-discovery and mindset change, helping them grow into grounded, future-ready individuals.

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Coaching that makes a lasting difference.

Coaching that makes a lasting difference.

What others say…

“Tom builds great rapport with children.. he is a natural coach.”

-Deputy Headteacher at a school in Warwickshire

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